My ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and I'm trying to get her back. Recently I've cut off all communication like texting and calls to be "less available" in hopes that she'll start wanting what she can't have. She has a new guy but I'm unsure that they'll actually get together and make it official.
Anyway, she finally texted me last night and I'm wondering how long I should wait to reply to her. I don't want to text immediately and be too available but I don't know how long to wait to reply to her. Or should I even reply at all?
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Ignore her for now.
Humans have needs – both emotional and physical. They need to be caressed, held, hugged, kissed, listened to, flirted with, and desired.
Your relationship routine might have made your ex feel starved for whatever it was they didn’t get anymore – that very stuff that made your stomachs and hearts flutter when you first started dating. If he or she was starving, then chances are you weren’t getting everything out of the pairing that you wanted as well.
What were you lacking in the relationship? What was missing?
Most relationships don’t crumble because of one single issue. When one thing comes in between two people, they usually recognize it and work things out amicably – unless it’s a deal breaker like, “she wants kids and I don’t.”
You might even see the breakup as a result from one of the above issues while your ex would pinpoint something totally different. Maybe you thought it was the fact that you spent no time together, but he thought it was the nagging you did.
If you want to get your ex back, don’t do these things::
- Texting your ex will push her away – fast;
- Calling your ex multiple times a day shows neediness;
- Telling her to get back with you telegraphs insecurity;
- Writing letters to try to make her understand how you feel is
-Phoning her parents and try to convince them to talk
sense into her is a sure way to get ignored;
-Calling the new guy in her life and telling him to leave her
alone will instantly turn her against you
How to get her back?
Maybe this few tips will help you:
- Never look desperate – work on your self, you need to shine if you want to attract her back
- Start seeing other girls. That will wake uh her curiosity and insecurity (is possible that he has already move on!?)
- Go out together, do stuff together, but don’t ask her to get back, just have great time together, let she see how good it was in relationship
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All the best and good luck!