I have an ex girlfriend and we have been together for about 3months. it was a one-sided relationship as she has no love for me at all. I asked her, she told me she won't mind being together even forever with a guy who loves her whole heartedly tho she has no feelings. I did not ask for anything in return cos I'm willing to fork out 100% for this r/s. we had been happy. but recently, I made up 2 white lies just to make her happy but ended up she asked for a break. she told me she hates liars. but its just white lies, and I have no intention to lie to her. I called her, and texted her how much I still loved her and told her I will wait for her no matter what. it has been a week, and finally she answered my call today. she asked me to give up but still can be friends. should I wait?
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NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Omg, no. I've made this mistake with my ex (just a couple weeks ago, actually). The begging, groveling, the "I will always be here and love you no matter what" will only drive the other person away. Now she knows that you're putty in her hands and that she doesn't have to lift a finger for you because you will do all the work for her. That is SO unattractive to an ex.
Trust me, I've been there. I've done/said some really humiliating, embarrassing things to an ex who had moved on, thinking that he'd change his mind and be with me. I even PROPOSED to him (*dies*)! No one wants a needy, insecure, person with no self-esteem. Leave her 100% alone, go find a girl who actually wants you, and live your life. I'm willing to bet your ex will come sniffing around once you're not all up on her a$$. Give the other person a chance to miss you.0