So what does he want? He says he doesn't ever want to get back together. Still he is listening to breakup songs and depressive songs? He asks about me and is trying to get my attention. He is so hot and cold. His big sister says it seems like he doesn't even know himself what he wants? We were together 3years and broke up 1 year and 3 months ago... he follows me to every school I go to. what is up with him?