Just my luck this girl I have been seeing for about 3 months and that I like a lot saw that her ex boyfriend was going to be having a wedding at the hotel she works at. She found out on the same day that I decided to see how she felt about me and if she wanted to be my girlfriend. Three nights prior we were laughing, she hugged me real tight and told me how good I smelled, we went out to a movie and dinner and she was ready to to drive with me 45 miles to my house afterward because I forgot my work clothes for the next morning. We kissed all night and feel asleep. Two days later I admit I wasn't the greatest Boyfriend and showed up to watch the football game with her after one two many beers. Yeah I messed up a little but all I did was scream at the TV a hair to much because my team was losing. anyway when I asked about how she felt it was like I'm not sure! you were kinda mean during the football game and seeing that my ex was getting married has my head all messed up and she wanted some time away from me? I'm so confused how things went from great to sour in three days. She said she still likes me a lot but needs time now all of a sudden. What do I do? Just sit back? I already apologized for my behavior during the game and she acted like it was no big deal like two hrs after she said it was! I like this girl a lot but she is really confusing me now. Why is this ex getting married such a big deal?
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let me get this straight, you proposed to her to be your girlfriend on the day she found out her ex is getting married? if that's so, maybe that's why she's behaving like this now. I think when she accepted u, it was more like a rebounced, someone to turn to when they feel unneeded. and that's probably after three days she started to tell you she needs space. for me, on the day she found out her ex is getting married, you should not asked her to be your girlfriend at that time. you should've wait. all you can do now is, try to care on her as a friend, try not to push yourself too hard as boyfriend materials upon her for now, as she's still trying to adapt to the fact that her boyfriend is getting married with someone else. and no I sincerely don't think the way you behave for the football is causing her to behave this way either. I am sorry for you that this is happening, but try to be there for her at all time, and give her space if she wants any. take care0