I wish I could just turn them off. It just doesn’t work for me. I’m not one for trying new things and I don’t get invited to parties very often so I don't know, rn I’m just putting my time towards things that truly distract me to try and get my mind away but nothing seems to happy and I just fall down this hole of getting worse and worse and not doing what I need to do
Go to your family. Find help anywhere you can. It will get better but help have to make a new to catch you when you fall
My family aren’t really understanding people and I wouldn’t want to turn to them simply because I’d just get told to get over it. That I have no reason to be upset
I meant more if your family is understanding. However also don't do what i did and have a bunch of short meaningless relationships to try to make you feel better.
I try to talk my feelings out but I really don’t want to annoy my one and only friend who never liked my boyfriend from the start. Which just tears me down more cause when I try to talk about it they just ignore me now
Well you could talk to me about it if you like to share, maybe i could help
It’s such a longs story. Short form: my betrayed me and lied to me about it, used me and left me as if we didn’t have a relationship for a year when I wasn’t useful to him anymore. He’s with a new girl already now, one he had been talking to for a while near the end of our relationship but told me not to worry.
Ouch im really sorry your going through this im hear to help you you'll always have my shoulder to cry on and will make sure to make it through this i promise you
It’s okay. I’m trying to cope. I just can’t seem to get myself motivated after it all. It’s like everything’s a pale shade of grey? Like nothing matters anymore on the long run. My family is disappointed cause im missing so much school but I get up in the mornings and just can’t make myself go. It’s like torture
At first it might feel that way, but we have to know how to break through those walls im here to guide you through it all but in the end itll be all you
It’s a vicious cycle, I miss a couple of days and then I’m scared to go back and face potential consequences. Face the people who I dislike more than anything. My teachers are condescending in the worst ways possible and the courses I have I didn’t even want, I just was put into them cause there was nothing else I could really do. Schools just horrible
It may seem horrible now but take it from me find a way to enjoy it cause you dont know what you have until you lose it, like you i didn't like school either until there was a certian someone who made it worth going for
I have no one worth going for and I highly doubt I’m going to meet someone worth going for in the last 2 and a half months of school. It’s all just shitty
My ex was my motivator, my drive to be the best me I could possibly be. Now that he’s gone, now that I’ve been lied to and left in the dark it’s like I have no idea what to do with myself but sit and cry at what I lost
What makes it worse is right now we aren’t talking because I’m not reaching out and it hurts that he probably doesn’t even notice I’m gone. That I basically meant nothing
It maybe feel shitty yes but listen deep down i feel your a strong and indepentdent women ao keep your head held up high and you'll do great and if you stumble i will be here to pick you up ill always be here for you and yes maybe you heard this from others but im not them when i say that i stick by it no matter what
Today is a rough day. I miss him so much. I want to reach out to him, see how he is and what he’s up to. Yet, that makes me look stupid for ignoring him in the way I have just to text him a while later. I miss him, today more than usual. I don't know what I’m doing? I do things, take steps forward just to want to go back to where I was. I hate that he’s moved on. Does he been miss me at all?
Honestly you wouldn't know that answer until you sit down with him and talk to and no it dosent make you look stupid for reaching out to him to see how he is you just care about his well being and if he dosent see that when you speak to him then he lost a very valuble person in his life
We had a sit down just after breaking up. Where he told me we were never gonna be anything again and that he cares about me but not that way. (Even though two days before he broke up with me, I went out with him and his friends to dinner and he told me he loved me)
He won’t agree to meeting up again, especially when he’s now with someone else. Even to just talk
Well if thats the case then that shows you that he's moved on and probably you should work on doing the same as for the reason he said i love you to could maybe because he was with his friends, trying to be nice or being friendly but im really sorry what your going through
No we were alone after dinner when he said it, we had sex and cuddled, he pulled me close and said he loved me. Oh well. I’m aware he’s moved on now, that I don’t matter, dating the girl he told me not to worry about but it’s just... hard. I put so much love and effort and happiness into what him and I had just for it to be thrown away like garbage.
I texted him yesterday to talk, see how he was and is doing. He was very dry. The conversation is over now and I probably won’t be hearing from him again till the next time I reach out
Yea, i understand how you feel i mean not only you gave him all your love but you also had sex with him and yes i understand how hard it could be, but itll also be hard moving on from it, ill always be here for you
Well my suggestion is not reaching out to him at all no more cause if you do you'll have a cycle and you'll never get over him itll take time but you have to get off of ever comunication you have with him
I started this. I went a week and a half of no contact. Yet it just made me sadder. Like I was missing out on who he is, on being there for him and being part of his life. It overwhelmed me until I sent him a text. I just don’t want to be forgotten by him after all the time we’ve had together. Yet it seems I’m already forgotten. Conversations get dry quickly even if I ask questions or send large texts as I only get “ah. Nice” or things like that in return. I know I should let go. Move on but I just love him and it breaks my heart to let go
I can’t help but feel like, if I had a chance I could be with him again. Just one day out together, just one real try. Yet is there even a point to having hope? Is it even fair to the girl he’s with now? I feel horrible but I just want the man I love back
I don’t feel like it’s fair that someone can come in and take him away, take my happiness away, my stability and everything I looked forward to away from me in two days
Im really sorry its gotten this bad, id really wish i could do something to numb the pain for you. These rough waters your going through won't be easy but i have faith in you that you'll get through them
Is there anything i could do for you?
I don’t think there’s anything anyone can do. I just have to feel it. We talked for a while today, it was good until it ended. It all came back around to his new girlfriend and how she’s better than me, how she’s just so amazing and they get along so well.
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It sucks and it’s painful. I wish you better luck moving on and being happy than I’m having