Is it trust?
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe I'm kind of different in this respect, but I go into a relationship already trusting someone. It's more about maintaining trust than "earning" it. Sure, I've been hurt in the past, but I don't think I should project issues I've had with previous partners on a new partner. Not trusting someone is like going into a relationship EXPECTING the other person to hurt you. And to me, that leads to things like insecurity, jealousy, always questioning the other person's motives, etc. I trust my partner unless they give me a good reason not to.2