So today in class, I overheard a conversation a bunch of girls had. One girl said that she cheated on her boyfriend. She was smiling and so was everyone else. I don't get how that is funny at all. She isn't even loyal to him. Is cheating just a joke. I never been in a relationship before so I wouldn't know
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Out of time just now, here is a more detailed answer.
This is a very valuable experience for you. Look at them and observe them very carefully when you get the chance, maybe far away, remember their looks, moves, attitudes, notice the commonalities ... these are the girls you DON'T ever want to stick yourself anywhere near, nor be seduced/hooked by. Why?
The girl who cheat and still are laughing, has deep psychological problems. It is the signed of a big/damaged ego. To her, people who are honest and open are fools. Being cunning and cheating honest people shows that she is smarter than them. The ego wants war. To the ego, no war=no pleasure. She is already a player, a manipulator. Next would be a professional con woman. Her kind of cheating is the worst kind, very insiduous, calculating very move, because it is designed to "kill". Meaning, she is the kind that studies other inside out, find their weakness, weak points, then aim to "kill", i.e. whatever the weak points of her opponent is, cheating is only one way to "kill", to "win the game". A whole life of miseries await her/her group.
Causes for her mental sickness? Thousands of reasons. Maybe her father dumped her mother/& her, and her full of hatred mother brainwashed her with "all men are no good, go trash them all, do the revenge for me, and for yourself" Or, her father is an egotist, and she learnt all the arrogance from him. Her ego just need a war, to win, to prove she is "smarter" than guys.
Are there plenty of these people around? You bet. You witnessed a bunch already. How to protect yourself and never get involved with psychos like that? >>> link0