When i was in the relationship i thought i couldn't change.. she also thinks that... she called me selfish for that... sometimes i think to live my life alone because of my commitment issue..
Is there any way to get her back... its been 1 month she is not talking with me.. we worked in same office.. Recently my building got changed and we dont see each other also
Like I said, all you can do is try to to be better. For yourself and her. Just accepting that you're not gonna change won't help you at all. Don't be coward and work on yourself.
But now even if i change she will not come back
Then you have to take responsibility of your behavior. You can't expect her to put up with your shit and still want her back. I'm sorry but relationships require both partners to pay efforts. Otherwise it's one sided.
Is there no way to get her back? I can't think of anyone else other than her... we were together for 4 years
You can wait to see if she changes her mind, but you already hurt her so you can't count on that happening.
I know i am in depression since last few months and i smoke weed every night to overcome stress and anxiety... my career is also not going the right way and now she also left me
Smoking weed makes you lazy it's a side effect. If you want to combat depression get some zoloft or something.
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She won't listen to me anymore.. i have told her many times but she became very strong and determined about leaving me
What were you lazy about?
I am lazt about everything.. from waking up to going office and i tend to awake late night no matter what
And she left you for lack of motivation?
I didn't care for her actually.. when she needed me i was not beside her... few things happened like this
And now, you want to change these things?
I dont know what to do... I m still lazy.. i have no willpower.. Sometimes i think there is no purpose of my living...
I think so... i have no interest in anything... dont want to go to office.. maybe i don't like my job.. m very confused.. i already started installing dating apps and want to have casual encounters with girls.. but i am confused in that also.. i m not like this.. is sex the only thing i want?
I think you want love
She loved me so much... more than i could imagine.. but why i couldn't understand her love.. how could i hurt her like this.. am i really a selfish person who doesn't want to get out of his comfort zones?
I always tried but once i sleep i forget everything in this world.. she kept saying that sleep is the most important thing to me
Maybe you're stuck in your ways. People are stubborn sometimes.