I have been with this girl for 3 years... we have been through a few break ups. Everytime it has been her breaking up with me for the same reason, she wants to be single and have fun. We got back together because she came back to me crying and convinced me this time was going to be different, by making so many promises and telling me how she couldn't live without me and wanted to spend the rest of her life with me and she made a big mistake before. And for 3 months she kept her promise and was completely amazing to me. Then out of the blue she started making up reasons to fight until she said I pushed her away...i have not done anything wrong I have always been so good to her. I think she's using our fights that she created as a way to make hersel think she had a reason to break up with me and now she has gone back to partying and messing around...i am having a hard time handling this break up...i can't eat or sleep...every day is a struggle. I miss her so much..everything about her...im sick of feeling like this feeling sick to my stomache everyday...i don't believe that people can actually feel this terrible about a break up...is this normal...?
Having trouble handling this break up is this normal?
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yeah its normal... 100%. but you have to except it and move on. As much as you love her she's not the one for you. It's the hardest thing in the world, but just do your own thing right now and enjoy yourself with the people around you and your family. focus on school or work or whatever you do and she'll be running back to you, your going to have to decide if you are going to take her back again though, decide if you want to go through all this again. She doesn't want to be in a relationship but is attached to you still, you'll be doing both of you a favor by cutting your ties for a while.0
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