How do I get over the feeling of guilt? I messed up a relationship I had with this guy I liked. I scared him off. I think he thought I was needy and got too attached too quickly. Now I feel like kicking myself in the butt. How do I learn to forgive myself and move on? I really liked this guy, so it hurts even more that I drove him off. We talked a lot on the phone, text, and would have lunch like 3 times a week to hang. He is no longer interested. I know this because he doesn't answer anything anymore and doesn't make time to hang anymore. Anyways, how do I learn to forget about him and stop blaming myself for driving him off. I keep being mad at myself. I know it's my fault he's gone. I scared him off by coming on as too attached or needy. I hate it. Help please. I feel sad and bad I ruined things with him! :(
I blame myself for driving him off.. how to forgive myself and move on?
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If you think you scared him...then probs it's just he doesn't know what he wants.
give him sometime.
it's never your fault to show your feelings.
If he doesn't understand that you really do like him.
leave. his loss.0
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