Long story short my ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago after 3 years. I went to a mutual friend to vent to because I just needed someones opinion (FYI i met this mutual friend first before meeting the ex) but the 3 of us are good friends. I tried telling the ex that we can work it out but he didn't want to. I was wondering if you were the ex, would you be mad that the your ex went to a friend to talk? Also, the friend agrees on my point of view and tried to talk to the ex about what he is doing and tried to shed light on my point of view, he still won't listen.