So I need some words of encouragement because I'm really down right now and pretty p*ssed actually.
i told this guy I liked him over the summer and reacted pretty positively. we've been keeping in touch since then and we go to the same school.
after not talking for about 2 weeks i, again, put myself out there and asked him to clarify his intentions... he said he was still interested in getting together and that hasn't changed (we're both busy students) and then says but those times would be few and far between right now...blah blah
then we continued fb messaging... I asked him what he was doing next Sunday, AGAIN initiating and it was going to be our first time hanging out one-on-one.
all he said was that he has a retreat to go to all weekend so he wouldn't be able to do much.
So what the hell... he didn't both saying oh how about a different day, ANYTHING. his actions clearly don't match up with his words.
how do I move on? I really liked this guy too but that p*ssed me off so I need to get over it and move forward.
i replied back saying "ohh, alright then." and that's it. is that enough?
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Just ignore him and move on. Here's a not too big secret about guys. If they like you they will want to & will be with you. No exceptions.
You don't have to say anything to him because whatever you say won't make a difference so I wouldn't do anything.
And sorry it didn't work out, I know how it sucks, maybe when he's not so busy he'll ask you out. You never know.3