Recently my ex decided she "needed some time" and the relationship was not working for her be side she didn't have time for a relationship due to school and other little bs excuses. She has left a number of items at my apartment. Shampoo soap really just a lot of bath stuff and a few pieces of clothing. She also has a few things of mine I've made crystal clear to her i want back. Namely a ring that she knows has a significant meaning to me. She always says she is to busy to come get her stuff and to return mine. Her most recent excuse is that she had to work but the next day comes around and she tells me she didn't go to work. Why won't she come get her stuff and return mine to me?