What do you do if your ex keeps your nude photos?

Do you ask him to delete it, or would you rather not say anything?

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  • Maybe ask him to delete them. If he is a nice guy he will. If you don't say anything he will either keep them or get rid of them. Most likely keep them.

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    • Can you tell me why would you keep it?

    • If it were me I would probably keep them to remember the girl unless it was a compete break up and I did not really want to think about her.

      Keep them could be a few reasons.
      To jerk off to later and remember the old days. If he still has feeling for you. Or if he was a dick maybe he would leak them. There are a number of reasons why someome would keep them.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't send nude photos with my face showing, so they can keep them if they like. I'll just deny ever sending any, if they want to get me in trouble for it. Word against word, no one wins.

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What Guys Said 45

  • Just get over it and move on. Hopefully he's mature enough to be an adult and do the right thing. You pretty much gave up all rights to those pictures as soon as you took them. If he does anything with them you should own it and be proud. He'll look like a dick and you'll come out looking like a proud, independent woman.

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  • It depends on how much you trust him. None of my ex's asked me to delete my pics but on that same token I deleted them out of respect and because I didn't want to be reminded of them.

    The bottom line though, it's his phone, his property. If he chooses not to delete them there is literally nothing you can do.

    I'd ask him to delete them, if he does not, then iits on you for sharing them in the first place.

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  • Guys keep them. For life. It's our treasure chest. In the old days, guys kept panties as our victory trophies. These days it's an archive of private pics. If you didn't want him to have them, you shouldn't have given them to him. Once you give something freely, it's given!

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  • If you want him to delete them, then ask him to do that.

    If a gal wanted to keep nudes I sent her I would be okay with that. Even if we are no longer going together, I would either not care, or I would be happy that she is still enjoying them.

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  • It might be a risk, and will keep hanging above your head like the Sword of Damocles. Let's just hope he's a decent guy. When I broke up with someone, I always had at least two nudes or more saved to my phone, but I made sure to erase them and shred the remains to make sure nothing would remain online. I don't feel like there's a lot of guys who have that decency

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  • I don't have any nudes out there. Not even my wife has a nude pic of me. But if someone did I wouldnt' care. It's the price you pay when you send pics like that knowing that the relationships don't work out.

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  • I have some pictures of exes, I've gone through and deleted a bunch a while ago but it's been a while so I do still have some, I would never show people because that's just disrespectful, I usually delete them as I see them

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  • So this is a personal thing and I will make a joke about it but it's kinda serious, so first off with all the porn now days he still chooses you as his favorite so congrats also id recommend politely asking him to erase it but as a guy I can tell you if they looked really good then he won't and instead he might lie. Not all guys are like that but the guys that aren't usually don't asks for nudes in the first place

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  • Most my friends, and some their friends have seen me naked at some point or other. I suppose, in your case, I'd be more worried about them ending up on the web (if you care). Otherwise, maybe he just jacks off to them, or has them for bragging rights.

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  • She can have it, i don't think she even remember having them, as if it's a guy depend on what happened in the realtshinship. I usually delete memories of the person I was dating without them even asking (nudes aswell)

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  • I wouldn't give a shit. If I didn't trust them to not share my pictures, I wouldn't have sent them in the first place, so if she decides she wants to keep them for her own purposes, so be it

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  • It depends on how I feel about it. My most recent ex told me I could keep them and enjoy them all I wanted.

    If you're uncomfortable about it ask him to delete it and if he's a decent guy he'll do it if not he's a dick head.

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  • Just hope he's a decent guy or still has feelings for you but most likely it's not worth saying anything because every single guy he knows has probably seen them already

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  • Out of respect he should delete them... if your no longer together.. he does'nt have any need to keep it then

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  • Depends how good terms you are on. If good, ask him. If not, and you think he may use them against you, dont tempt him.

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  • My ex's asked me to delete old pix... Lol that's not going to happen

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  • It personally doesn't bother me but if I did care I would not send them with my face in any under any circumstance

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  • Talk to him this is a serious subject if you really want him to delete it you have to speak up cause this may or may not have consequences

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  • My ex has plenty. I didn't ask her to delete them. Figured it was unenforceable anyway. That's the risk of nude photos.

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  • You can't do shit. You shouldn't have taken them even if you were together. At this point they can lie and say anything while having saved copies.

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What Girls Said 12

  • If you broke up on good terms you can just ask him.
    If you broke up on good terms and he doesn't delete the photos I really feel like you have too much to worry about.
    It's the spiteful exes that you need to be worried about.

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  • If you don't want him to keep them, tell him to delete them. Then at least you can say you've tried and he can't say but I didn't know you wanted me to delete them

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  • Send him a leaflet in the post to warn him of the consequences of revenge porn

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  • Dont send nudes if you dont trust him

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  • Ask to delete

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  • Ask him to delete them

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  • I'll ask him to deleted it

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  • Post them online. ^^

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  • Ask to delete it

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  • I don't send nude pics but if i did i would ask him to delete them for sure

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  • You make him delete the photos before breaking up with him.

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  • It’s up to you.

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