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I think it’s got a lot to do with our upbringing and our past experiences.
Ya think? How so? Please expound.
I mean listen Dark Eyes I'm in serious need of understanding I gave someone my all and they purposely destroyed everything good I produced and broke my heart. Help.
I mean every individual will have their own version. My experience is having my mom accuse my dad of cheating all the time when we were little and this was recorded in my brain so I always had this idea that men were deceitful and couldn’t be trusted.
Anything good that happened to me I pushed away because I was afraid that it was too good to be true.
Oh Jesus ! That's awful ! But what if the gut went way out of his way to let u know that he was true? An open book total transparency? Would u still do it?
And of course meeting guys who really were untrustworthy only re-solidified my view that men couldn’t be trusted. Mix into this A LOT of self-esteem issues and then we start feeling like we are unworthy and we deserve negativity.
It depends on how severe this chick was. I was able to ultimately get over a lot of my baggage and found someone who bulldozed through my walls. He did a lot of confronting me about everything. He forced me to talk to him. I think constant communication is what did it.
My bad Dark Eyes this app went crazy on me had to uninstall etc. , Anyhow confrontation , did that plenty only made her worse. It's a shame she was otherwise perfect for me. Oh well
It’s okay. Like I said, her experiences might have been worse, or she may have never really dealt with her issues properly.
Yeah she must not have. Well I see her side I suppose but it doesn't change the fact that my heart got f**cked up bad on this one I NEVER put it all out there the one time I do... Well thanks , I really needed someone to lay all that garbage on tour the best
Ok sorry you had to go through that. I’m glad to help a bit.
Hey I don't know of a human being ever who hasn't been heartbroken. Though it feels that way. thanks for easing that pain. I'm letting her go and moving on
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