OK I'm 16 and she is 16 too. we started dating really soon like 10 days after we met in October of 09 and we've been having an on and off relationship. She's the love of my life and the best thing that's ever happened to me. she's had one obsessive ex boyfriend and she cut him out of her life, and blocked him. changed her number and everything. she's very beautiful and I ask myself sometimes how come I got her. I'm good looking also , but I'm kinda insecure about that because she barely told me I was handsome. but she did. the months 1-4 went fine and we were both happy as we could be. but then little fights such as little things would come. She would mess up sometimes and I would be disappointed but then we would makeup and be happy again. We both are Muslim and we can't have a boyfriend or girlfriend. so we both kept this from our parents. The thing is months 7-12 were difficult. we fought allot and we broke up literally every couple weeks at firs then it got down to every couple days then every day basically. then we would get back together and have another break a day later. But now its November 2nd and its been almost a year and one month we've known each other and she's said she's moving on. I have a temper problem and I would call her bad names but then I would say I'm sorry. I didn't treat her as good as other guys would. but since we are Muslim she did things she wasn't supposed to. so I had a right to be mad. but recently like last weekend we fought and she said she needed space. I see a change in her friends too. she's hanging out with the popular group now and doing things she never would have done last year in school.But we stopped talking a week ago and cut communication. she tried emailing me and asking how I am but I didn't reply. but then Saturday a week later I emailed her back and asked whatsup and she said she was going to a holoween party and I said OK well if you do anything with a guy and drink we are done for good. ( she's Muslim she's not supposed to drink ) And the next day I found out she drank Smirnoff so I was in denial that she did even when I said we would be over if she did. And I got a text from my friend telling me she said he was sexy..like what the hell? is she really over me? she loves me allot. I'm her only boyfriend she's had that's not over the internet and I'm her only boyfriend she's had that she's seen the most. ( her ex used to live 3 hours away and they saw each other only once and she cut him outta her life because he was psycho and controlling) I'm not like him but I still gave her restrictions like not going to a party without me, that's reasonable because I wouldn't want her cheating one me with a guy. But I'm just dumb founded, I tried to talk to her and ask her to meet up and talk about this but she says she doesn't want to see me or talk to me. but I managed to talk to her over skype and left on a good note because I don't want her to get the wrong idea. please help me.
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you can't force her to do anything. if she's not willing to meet up, then give her time and space0