OK I need some advice. Me and my ex have been together on/off for 4 years.
He broke up with me like a month and a half ago and it was because we argued too much :(.
I was so heartbroken about everything and even begged him like an idiot lol.
2 weeks after we broke up. He told me its over for good, that he's not in love anymore, I am not the same girl he fell in love with, and how we want different things. How can his feelings change in 2 weeks? Cause he was telling me how much I meant to him before we split.
So It got a bit messy he suggested we'll be friends and I was so hurt I didn't want to be, and it ended in him deleting my number. He also said I hope you find a boyfriend you want and he treats you well, you deserve it :S.
So I hadn't spoke or seen him for 2weeks, and I bump into him at my local pub. He asked me like 5 times if I am alright. When we both agreed not to have a friendship :S.. And I tried to be strong and not have a convo with him cause it would put me back to square one !
The worst thing is all his friends and his mom says he still loves me.. They won't stop talking to me about him. Saying how he is an idiot to let me go and how he loves me but fells we argue too much. I don't know who to believe.
Its a weird one cause obviously I still love him. But he broke my heart. I don't know whether he's means what he says.
I ended up texting him the other night to say thanks for asking if I was OK. And he replied yeah just checking to see if your cool cause you looked grumpy.. And we had a simple convo like how are you and all that and his replies where limited.
I wish I knew what was going on in his head, is he just trying to be friends with me. When we broke up before he always ignores me and this time he replies to my texts and trays to say hello when I see him :S: x
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I think the answer lies in your question itself. So far whoever answer your question seems to ignored that line when he said to you "you are not the same girl he fell in love with, and how we want different things." other then this I don't see anything else whihc sugggest that he has done something wrong. He found you changed (you might or he just felt it) and due to the change there is lots of arguments going on. He fed up and asked for peace.
His friends can stalk or lie for him but not his family. I think he still loves you and want you back but he definately want you back the way you were before. He is as hesitant to take you back unchanged as much you want him to take you back without you just realising what went worng or what you possibly did wrong.
If oyu are sencere and have the courage then think of the early days of yourself and then the end and try to find out what exactly changed in you from start to end. If you find nothing, then its not your fault. You just need to move on.0