me and my boyfriend were dated 13 months on and off, and we broke up because he thinks I changed. he said I whine constantly and I'm always complaining and I get jealous to easily. I have always been a jealous person, but I don't see the whining and complaining part. I'm pretty sure begging him to get back with me won't work, only push him away. he says I pushed him away, another thing I don't see. I love him very much and I will do anything to change for him and be with him. I told him this. but, I just need some advice because all the past times he dumped me I chased after him and did everything for him, and it may have worked those times but I'm sick of doing all the chasing. he says he doesn't love me but I can tell he still does, what should I do wait it out? text him don't text him? please help!
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Definitely stop chasing him. He knows you want to be with him; if he truly wants to be with you he will come back to you. Then you will need to decide if he is a worthy person to allow back into your life. I would not text him, call him or email him. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Instead spend your time focusing on you. Find something to do that helps you feel fulfilled. I know its difficult to let go, but you have to. If you choose to wait a while before you date someone else, I think that's fine, but don't wait to long. Basically don't allow yourself to miss out on someone that is a perfect match for you on the basis of getting back with your ex.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE