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Definitely need to get out and surround yourself with things that make you happy! Find something you enjoy doing. Go to a spot where you can socialize and meet new people! Yes, it's easier said than done but you need to start somewhere to get out the funk you're in. Hope you feel better love! When I had a down moment, it took some time to get out of my feelings but it had to be done! I started my mornings with getting ready, journaling how I was feeling, worked out, got out the house for a bit, interacted with people, found things to keep my mind occupied. so I know you can find a way to cope too! you won't feel this way forever! Keep your head up darling :)
Thank you. I'm really antisocial so that's going to be really hard
new beginnings for you! or maybe meet new people on social media!
I don't have one.
can write me also, Im mainly good at bringin hope.and dont ever give up , ever..Remember this: life has this strange rule that flowers needs water and protection, while weed can grow on its own killin or infesting its surroundings. so, if you feel you are alone in this world, there's a good chance you are a flower, and thats good, be proud of it.
no need to thank dear, i just hope u get better soon.
Me too 😣
Stay away from alcohol pills and any depressant of any kind listen to sad music cry and yeah Craig Daily that's my strategy get it all out all the self-loathing that you can for 10 minute time frame so what I do is I put on just like sad music and sit there for 10 minutes for the timer and I just cry and I call myself names and I get it all out and then the next day after I wake up after my cry Fest I know that I got it all out I remember what I said I remember what I dislike about myself or what is going on in my head and then I can either fix it or learn to like it and then it becomes more of a focusing on myself less focusing on him or her
I'm sure you are a great person. You should be proud of who you are. Love yourself for who you are. Stand up straight and be proud of who you are have positive attitude. People will respect you for that. People feed off of weakness they since that in you and take advantage of it. Sometimes it is intentional sometimes not it's human nature to some. Stand up for yourself love yourself for who you are. How you carry yourself means a lot to a man. If your confident your more attractive it's a fact.
Time is the best thing. Going out won't make you feel better. Take some time to be alone and get to know yourself again. It took me a few years to really get over my divorce. But with time it will get better.
You need to break this circle of being closed to your self and live in the college- home relation only
If you need someone to talk to, message
I feel I need to make sure my parents are okay and my studies are important to me. All my friends have left me years ago.
I am sure they will be ok, they have you. So, what do you study?
That's nice. And probably very useful in life later on, I think
I hope si
why did friends leave? something similar happened to me as well
I don't do drugs and a lot of them left because I wouldn't sleep with any of them
Go out by yourself. Calm yourself. Then work on yourself.
I hardly go anywhere without my dad
Then I can't help you. You must help yourself. Escape reality. Listen to rock. Or hip hop. Whatever lifts your boat. And yeah, start exercising. Move it.
There's always someone out there we all need to piss off so our lives can't be over, and there will always be someone out there who cares about you.
Hey we all have time to talk so if you need to talk, talk. I bet everyone here would love to sit and listen, I know I would.
You are a wonderful person! Thank you I could always use someone to talk too
Thanks and your welcome
You're not going to meet anyone sitting in your house. 😕
I don't have any friends. All I have is my dad. I go to college online and help my dad around the house.
I know. You have to go out and meet friends. They're not going to come to your door.
I actually had the same problem. What I did was I tried and put myself out there. At school I try and spark and continue conversations and ask people if they want to hangout during lunch. Also going to social and school events really helps also.
Find friends. You'll get from a park, a gym, neighborhood. just go out
I know how to ease a heartache. Don't feel like you're dying. I will be your friend, now you can go out with someone.
Get a hobby or sport.. do something with nice other people
You're welcome l, what do you like? otherwise text me
I don't really know. College is all I know right now
okay text me private
Do you have no one you can talk to?
My dad but he just says he don't know what to tell me
It helps if you can just talk about your emotions and get them off your chest
I have. I just keep crying
Does it feel any better or the same?
I understand. Do you just feel longing?
I feel broken and stupid. This is my first relationship I'm 6 years. I've shut myself off from relationships and built huge walls. Now I let him in my walls and I'm crushed. I feel betrayed and abandoned. He won't even tell me it's over. He won't text me back. We were fine yesterday over text.
That's the most aggravating- when you just don't know what went wrong 😔
Exactly. We were fine. We were being all loving over text. He earned to see me but I caught pink eye. He hasn't talked to me since 7:30 Saturday night. I've texted him 8 times. I'm sure he's okay. But he's never done this. So I fear I'm single, and I don't know what I did or what went wrong
Have you been seeing each other long?
He's my ex. So we started where we left off four years ago. We've been messing around for a month and been official 2 weeks. But we've done so much I've never done with anyone before. He treats me like a princess except for spending time with me
Has he ever gone silent like this before?
Last time when he broke up with me he did
So that's why you think he's doing the same now? :/
One of the hardest things in a relationship is that you can't control what others do, and that includes hurting you 😔
I'm praying he lost his phone but I doubt it he should use a phone and let me know. I didn't do anything wrong. So it makes it that much harder
Not knowing is always hardest 😔😔
It really is. He's been so nice and he doesn't judge me.. I thought i was doing everything right. I mean he can't stay with me and I can't have sex with him as much as we both would like but I live with my parents and go to college full time. I thought he understood. Why wouldn't he tell me?
Maybe he is afraid of your reaction
But I told him if he ever wanted to leave me i wouldn't fight with him or be a bitch I'd let him go..
Maybe he was still afraid though
It would still hurt but it would be easier if he told me..
Yes but maybe it was easier for him not to :/🙄
It's killing me though. I need him right now. He's the only thing that makes me happy
I know the feeling. It sucks.
I don't feel like I'm that bad of a person
I'm sure you aren't ❤️
Thank you. I'm really good. I don't drink or do drugs. I just go to college and help take care of my dad medically
Exactly- you care about people who mean something to you
I do. I care about him despite his habits and his weight. No one's perfect. But he's perfect to me.
That's just it. You value his qualities beyond his looks/habits
That's why he's leaving?
It's possible he just doesn't value as much or doesn't feel that he's good enough. It's tough to know :/
He is always hard on himself but I tell him I like him the way he is and he's perfect to me.
Maybe he just doesn't believe it, sometimes words aren't enough
I'm praying he's not leaving me but it looks it.
Hope things work out 🙏
Thank you so much
For sure ❤️
Go ousside alone.
I did that yesterday.
Good stuff. Do it again some time.
It's to cold to sit outside today
Put on some clothes
Lots of alcohol and karaoke
omg, happened to me once 😂 she has a point!! just take ur friend so that they defend u in any case, it would be fun!
Talk to meeeeee 😊
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