The general back story to this is that we were at a wedding together about two weeks ago, right before we broke up. My boyfriend paid attention to me, but he was aloof most of the time... getting drinks for a few other girls and not dancing with me as much. I felt like his friend rather than his date and girlfriend. He was definitely ignoring me on purpose. He even admitted to it, that he felt he was ignoring me. I told him the next morning that I didn't like his behavior.And so, he apologized for ignoring me.
However, immediately after this conversation, he says he wanted to think on whether or not he wanted to see me anymore. So, I gave him a week to make a decision... and he broke up with me later on that week. He says he broke up with me because I was going away to Europe. I have always wanted to teach English abroad in France, and I am planning to do so in January, which is two months from now. However, I never confirmed the dates as to exactly when I was going... so he didn't know when I would be leaving. So... he said, based on this reason, that he didn't feel like he wanted to invest in our relationship.
I just don't feel like this is much of a reason. I just feel so frustrated because he was good to me throughout our relationship. He even said he felt like he was falling for me and he felt afraid to stay with me if I was just going away to Europe. Maybe he was scared? I mean, I admit he didn't treat me right by ignoring me the night of the wedding. Another thing that p*ssed me off was the fact that he slept with me and then broke up with me the next morning. It was a really d*** move on his part. Maybe the ignoring me and using me by sleeping with me, would qualify as reasons? :-(. But its so bizarre? We were together on an average of three or four times a week. We never fought, we occasionally disagreed, but never had any serious issues. Not only that, he wanted to stay friends after we broke up, which also is crap. He has called me twice since we broke up. I have told him I don't want to stay friends because I don't want to be his bench warmer! I deserve better than that! Ughh! What do you guys think happened? Especially any men who have opinions, that would be very helpful as well :-) Thanks!