I told my Ex love I want to be your friend and not on your enemy list I want you to forgive me and she replied back to me, Jon You are not on my enemy list and that I'm not mad at you I just don't wanna talk to you.. What do she mean by this I don't understand if she not enemy's with me and not mad at me why she doesn't wanna to talk to me as friends is she holding something against me somebody can I get a little advice I would prefer a girl but I need some great advice..
My ex told me this - what does this mean?
What Girls Said 3
if she broke up with you, it was probably cause she felt is was the best thing to do but she stll has feelings for you and its too painful to keep up a friendship. if you broke up with her, she may feel it is painful to stay friends. either way, give her some time and see what how she is feeling ina few weeks.0
She won't hate you, she is sad and it is better to respect her wishes, and from the sounds of it, she doesn't wanna be friends after.0
What Guys Said 2
Well your already on her enemy list and frankly, she is lying to you. This is the translation: "we hung out for a time and we fought for a long time, just leave me alone forever." She is saying she does not want anymore arguments nor drama and to cut off all ties...
She is basically trying to cherry coat the truth.
Yes, I can tell you love her..a lot...that is why you use the word "Ex love" in your question. I'm not going to try to pry out what happened between you two on this site..not necessary, but whatever happened, is final. Just hold your head high and leave her alone.
I'm not trying to be mean man, just trying to help as much as I can.0
The most logical explanation is that she wants to get over you and know that that isn't possible if you always in contact. The no contact rule applies for all aspects of a break up whether you want to get back with someone or get over them. How can you move on if your constantly reminded of your past.0
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