i tend to not open up to people and find myself creating this image that everything is OK because I'm too scared to open up. on the other hand though, the few times I have been completely honest and open shortly after the person will just leave and it makes me feel abandoned and stupid for believing that they cared, but I go on pretending that everything is OK.
They leave if I open up to much because they either get annoyed with my personality, get scared off or say that I need to open up even more which really hurts me because already letting them in is really difficult for me and their are things that I could just never say because I don't want anyone else to know.
this problem has ended friendships for me and I feel that it is stopping me from finding a relationship. what can I do ?
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Depends on how you act yourself. I have opened up to girls the same way and they just flew away without any notification. They got bored. On the other hand when I do not tell anything at all, they get annoyed.1