If you break up with a girl, even though you loved her, because of stress, and arguments or lies but no cheating. Would you want to know she was pregnant? Or would you rather her handle it on her own, making the decision what to do involving the baby. And if she decided on giving it up, or (I know this will be a big controversial blow up) having an abortion. Would you rather never know, or do you think thats wrong not giving him a choice too.