If he HATES me then why does he find ways to contact me?

LONG STORY SHORT me and my boyfriend just broke up. we have been having so many problems that toward the end of the relationship and because of that he act like he hates me. I never cheated, I never got angry, I gave him space, I've tried everything. Even so he acts like I am the WORST person in the world and is very hostile with me. The last two weeks of the relationship he would say that for him its over, the only reason he was continuing to be my boyfriend is because am forcing him to be with me and that if I just gave him the OK he would break up and never look back, he say the ONLY REASON he stays is for my sake, so I'm not sad and because I want it. It just does not add up... Him staying with someone he truly HATED the gesture of him staying together or their sake would never happen. There has got to be a deeper reason that that.. He comes over on his own, he emails me still on his own, if I was forcing him to be with me he would just sit back and make me do all the work making time for us to spend together. To stay with someone like that, even if you have tons of bad feelings toward them, shows that part of him wanted it to. No one can force you to do anything you don’t want to do.

so this leads to my questions: if he really really really then why should he inconvenience himself to stay with me at all those last two weeks at all. If I freaking HATE someone... thers no no no way I would stay with them to just to spare their feelings . There is no way I would inconvenience myself and live with the anger and disgust for two weeks just for them. And my ex is NOT SHY about hurting my feelings at all either so why start now, why the sudden change of heart?, it just does not add up, staying with someone he "hates" would be impossible for him. This to me shows something else is going on, there’s more to the reason he stay with me. Could it be that deep down he wants to be together.? Is it a front he's putting up so he can still be with me but still look macho and have control?

Also, he messaged me today, first time he's made contact since Thursday, to tell me I still have things at his place and I need to get them because they are taking up his space…. The things I have to get… One pair of jeans…. That seemed odd to me. If I am the horrible psycho bitch he claims I am then just throw my stuff away. I didn’t even make an effort to tell him to get his things from my place because I didn’t care. Also he still has his relationship status on fb as in a relationship and pix of me and him. He knows how to get rid of that stuff, he's done it before when he was mad, why isn’t he doing it now?

All of these things are giving me hope, but I don’t know if these thing really mean what I think. What do you Guys think? How do I get him back with out making contact with him?

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i just checked and he took down the "in a relationship" on FB, but he left the pic of him and I
If he HATES me then why does he find ways to contact me?
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