Most Helpful Guy
Just keep in mind all the shit he has put you through during your relationship and how he brought this on himself and hopefully that relieves some guilt you feel. If you make the same mistakes over and over it becomes intentional you did the right thing. Just stay strong. He will keep texting and crying to try to guilt his way back into your arms.
Most Helpful Girl
Just know you're breaking that constant cycle he's been giving you. He'll never change and you've given him multiple chances. Remember you deserve someone way better and there's people out there who will treat you nicer. It's not your fault he's in this situation, he only wants you to feel sorry for him so he can have you back