so last year I started talking to this guy from my school last year, and we would always hang out, and he'd invite me to parties and his house. his parents knew me, and he'd always say hi to my parents and was eager to meet them. we'd have English class together and always like hug and talk before and class with both our friends. and every time we'd argue (because I was a little jealous and possessive over him even though we only talked for so little) he'd call me up or text me and we'd fix it right up. I don't know why, but I fell so hard for this boy from the start. because we had such a strong connection and even he said it. we would stop talking because I'd tell him I don't want him anymore because I always suspected something that was probably never there. we never even did anything sexual besides kiss. it was a true true type of feelings that I had for him, and I think he had for me. anyways, so we were on and off, and we would always hang out, I was his "girl" but he never asked the question and I know he knew we weren't official because he was like "you shouldn't get jealous because we don't go out" one time when we were arguing. anyways, we got back in the summer, we chilled, it was awkward because its been a while, than he went away for vacation, than he finally texted me and I was like why'd you never text me this whole summer? he's like I was away, I barely had my cellphone, but there was never a day I didn't think about you, we went back together. and I slept over, and we were finally about to have sex, but I have a really weird condition where my hymen is unusually thick so losing my virginity is hard for me, plus I felt anxiety because I care so much about him and how id actually look. but I will get surgery on this soon. anyways, he thought I didn't want him because I kept looking all over the room, anywhere but him and avoid kissing more and getting into it, so he took it another way. I will never admit I'm a virgin with a rare type of problem to anyone. its so embarrassing to me. so I decided to keep it to myself and let him think that. we didn't talk for another week. than I saw him at a party, and I was talking to one of his friends, and he approaches me and points at me, than him and gives us a sarcastic "thumbs up" like he was jealous. so I go to him and go "its not what you think, can we talk?" so we go to the living room to talk, and I'm like "do you even miss me?" and he says he does. and we start talking about everything. and than we try to have sex again :/ no goooo. so whatever, he's mad at him because we were naked and we didn't do anything, sort of making it seem like I teased him. we don't talk again. I text him "sorry please don't be mad" and he doesn't answer. and than a few days later I post a status "heartbroken, **** love and I put so much time and effort for a year and I didn't get **** in return" he comments on it, saying "wow remember when you p*ssed me off?" and he even said I smelled like fish? I'm like WOW your immature! -_.
Why hasn't he asked me out, lengthy but I'd appreciate the help!
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i think you should breakup...you're dating an obvious bad boy and he's obviously in it for the sex...who knows where the relationship goes after that0
Sounts like he is confused and frustrated. He wants sex, not a relationship, if he doesn't get it he will move on not really interested in a relatioship.0
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