Wondering what other people with kids who have gone through a divorce feel works best for them as far as a custody. My soon to be ex and I are on decent terms, I work M-F 9-5 typical job and she's currently not working. I know the standard is weekends with dad, but she's saying she'd like to have them some weekends as well. She suggested i get them every other weekend, but that would mean only a few days out of 14. (And more money out of my pocket for support) I've also been told that a week on, week off might seem a be a little too interfering with my kids routine since theyre still relatively young (elementary school). Thoughts?