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that's how it is. somehow guys really mean it however, as time goes by, there are a lot of things and happenings that changes it and you can't do anything about it. .. sometimes they only say such things because they are happy and they don't really mean it. people make promises when they are happy. same with making decisions when they are mad.. nothing is constant except change. remember that.
He was using you, try finding a shy guy that will appreciate you.
He was a shy guy... hated sluts... didn't care about feminine things like periods etc... classed as average to other women but 10/10 to me... nerdy... he was perfect...
But how did he treat others when you went out?
I don't know really... I guess he was child like around others.. very aloof
I mean to service people that were obligated to deal with him and not by choice.
Oh erm from what I can remember he was shy, didn't talk to them very much but was polite and said thank you
What did the tip look like?
We live in a country where not many people give tips, that and he was quite poor not his fault
These are the types of things you can use to judge his real personality instead of just taking his word for it. It's easy to get swept away in him wooing you but the bread and butter of a relationship won't be in that.
Yeah I guess I could, I just don't see him as anything but nice and shy.. from looking back at the server thing and thinking back to other times he was a good guy
Which makes this even more harder
Did you meet any of his family? Most men that use women won't stay that long just don't get attached tell week 2 or so. There's lots of ways to judge character. What did he tell you about past relationships? Did you ask? Usually 20 or 30 well worded questions will tell you whatever you want about someone.
I didn't meet his family no, but I was going to meet them before we broke up... all past girlfriends he's had said they cheated on him etc.
How long was the relationship?
9 months our anniversary wasn't long off and he even promised we'd watch our first date film on that day. And sorry for the late reply in work and stuff so got caught up in that
Then this seems more like a relationship issue one of you have. Might be solving issues in a constructive vs destructive manner or a problem with anger or expressing emotions on one side. I feel issues were arising toward the end.
Yeah I feel the same too.. I have no issues with him.. I just wish he'd tell me what issues he had with me and why. Just so we could fix them and not just give up because it's not worth it
All a lie
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