My ex boyfriend broke up with me this Sunday. He told me everything would be the same , that we'd still talk and that he's still come and see me . Well the reason he say he broke up with me is because he misses being single , but he told me he still loved me and that their is always a place in his heart for me . Up until Sunday he stopped texting and calling me . I have his facebook password , so I logged in to see that he is having the time of his life talking to and messaging other females. He deleted all of his old messages except a letter that I wrote to him in a message telling him how much I missed him from about a month ago . Every picture with me and him together has been set to private. The day before he broke up with me he told me he loved me but the next day he just left me. We were together since April , and he was my first love . I can remember him also saying if you love someone let them go . why do you think he broke up with me why ? I am really hurt to the point to where I cry 24/7 .
Why did he break up with me?
What Guys Said 1
Aww, I'm sorry to hear about that, hope you're okay now
First relationship-break-ups are always the hardest
And wow, just read the update! Your virginity? And he said he liked being single, that jerk, he sounds like a user to me
It just sounds like he used you to get what he wanted, then when he broke up he became single, so he could oogle and girl he wanted without consequences
Really sorry to hear about your break up, but the cheesy and old expression "time heals all wounds" is actually pretty acurate.
Word of advice (and I know from experience) beware of the rebound. You might be thinking, wow now that I'm single all my other male friends are so much nicer. They're trying to get you when you're most vaunerable. Probably wise to stick with female freinds for abut 3 weeks0
What Girls Said 1
I'm going to be completely honest with you, because you deserve it. This isn't what you're gonna want to hear right now, but it's important you understand.
He left you to play in the field. He misses being "single". If he really loved you, don't you think he'd rather stay with his "love"?
He has other options right now; he's mingling with other girls. He says he still loves you and wants to talk to keep you close enough until his other options don't work out.
If I were you I'd tell him that you don't want to keep in contact. That'll not only give you space to move on from this jerk, but it'll also quite possibly make him realize that he's completely missing out.
Feel better, and don't waste your tears on a person like this.0
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