I'm asking because a year ago my ex and I were on the verge of getting back together (or at least I thought we were...) and then he turned around and dated someone else. I was really depressed about it for a really long time, especially since we were best friends before that and then stopped talking completely. I thought I was fine but I met someone new, and I'm still having a hard time trusting him even though it's been a few months now...
How did you handle it? Are you still trying to get over it?
(Guys can answer, too.)
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Mine was a girl that I was crazy over, was seeing another guy on the side and left me for him. I was in college, poor, and I didn’t work out or eat well. This guy never went to college, but had a decent job and he was in great shape. I stayed at home got chubby eating potatoe chips, and only worked part time. This guy was busting his butt trying to make himself a better person.
In a lot of ways, it was the best thing that ever happened to me. I don’t blame her for leaving me… I wasn’t that great of a guy. Sure I was nice, but lots of guys are nice. If you want to be with someone who is amazing, you have to be amazing too. I finished school, got a good job, starting eating well, and now have a slammin’ body.
So, to answer your question, I got over it by first realizing I had fault/weakness that were of my own doing and then improving them.
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