Most Helpful Guy
First I'm sorry for your loss and the fact your parents were preaching the voodoo. My guess is that this is your first real breakup. For guys the breakup has to be final at some point. He hit that point and he is using the indiscretion you used as an excuse to finalize everything. Being poor sucks, i didn't have ac until i moved into my own place and regular soups of broth with a few veggies was a normal meal. He may see you as a long term liability. This is what i want to see you do. Make him regret it. Finish your education in something that makes real money, STEM fields. He will come back around eventually. Turn him away every time he comes around. Don't friend zone, banish him. Next learn from my grandmother "nothing gets you over the last one like getting under the next one". In other words find someone new that has potential. Not just financial but emotionally supportive. Then live by these rules don't get married until you both can afford it. Don't have kids until you can afford it. Live as debt free as possible. Never be afraid to cry or say no to anyone.
Most Helpful Girl
OMG that's terrible, I'm so sorry, I can't even imagine, or I actually i can. He's a dick okay, and trust me you're not a whore okay. Wow I'm still shocked, it literally sounds like a something from a book. But personally I haven't had a lot of "serious" relationships, but from the closest I've had, I told myself I was over the guy but in reality I wasn't. But after a looong time, I without noticing slowly godt over him, and instead of getting nervous every time talking/texting him, I didn't feel anything. So I would say from what I've tried (wich isn't much) It probably will take some time for some people, but then again it depends on how we greaf or whatever it's called.