People always tell you to let go of someone you love. And you can try to. But how do you know if you've finally let go of him/her? Years can go by and if you happen to see the person, feelings could rise again. So how do you know for sure if you have let go?
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When you have forgiven that person and yourself. Much like when you were younger and your parnets tell you, you can't do something. You tend to be upset and hold that against them. Well some people learn to let go and forgive their parents over time. But we eventually forgive them. If we don't, we end up hurting ourselves, emotionally. This can go on for years until you can find it in your heart to let go and forgive. We all get hurt but we can only take responsiblity of our own actions. Moving on and letting go has to come from you and no one else.1