I've been with this girl for 6 months and took her virginity. She lives 40 min away and were both in high school. I did like her at first a lot but she is so shy and kind of boring now. I'm in my junior year and going on a lot of fun vacations where I would like to be single. It's been 6 months and she's is deeply in love with me. Not trying to be cocky but she isn't that attractive. If I do break up with her how do I do it because I can't drive to her house because I can't drive and I couldn't do it in person because she lives so far out of the way. Also, I don't know if this matters, but she has problems at home also including she met her father for the first time 8 months ago.
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Never stay with someone because you don't want them to be sad. The day my ex broke up with me he said he didn't want to because he knew it'd hurt me and I'd be sad, that was a red flag to me, I knew that was just wrong.
She's not going to like you once you do break up with her, she loves you, she probably likes how you accepted her shyness and you didn't care, and she'll be thinking that you just want to be single because you're going on awesome vacations and you're probably gonna meet some hot girls that are way more attractive than she is. Yep.
The main question is, Do you still like her? Do you love her?
Think about this, you were able to have sex with her and now you say you can't break up with her in personbecause it's too far away. She's given you a lot and she has many feelings for you, don't take the low road and break up in a text she's WORTH having you visit her and tell her in person. She's worth it. The way I see it, you're like her escape from problems at home, you made her life better.
Let me tell you something, I'm very shy. VERY. It's hard for me to be myself around a guy I like, so she might be very self conscious around you... She's shy around you for a reason. You want to break the ice? You need to put forth the effort to really understand her. You say she's boring, maybe the things you DO are just making it boring. If you do the same old same old, do something new! There are many things you can do, you just gotta find them!
Point is: Break up with her NOT because you think she's boring or too shy. Break up with her because you KNOW in your heart that you don't love her. If you have feelings for her, try to make things work...relationships take work and nothing comes easy.1