My ex girlfriend of 4 months texts me few times a week and says she is partying, going out, busy till late. And when I say what's up, she says things like she is busy being social.
My question is why is she making this such an obvious point to me? Is there something more to it.. ? Please help guys & specially girls.. Thanks.
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This is a text-book scenario of wanting to make you jealous, I mean, you can see it from space. If she really didn't give a sh*t about the past, she'd have nothing to do with you, or just act as a casual acquaintance. Now, as for WHY she's trying to make you jealous, there are two reasons:
1.) She f***ing wants you to burn in a hole and wants to make your life miserable
2.) She wants to make you jealous so that you'll come back to her
Now, of these two reasons, 2 seems more likely. So, what I would suggest, (assuming you really have no more feelings for her, which is what you're saying here), is that every time she tells you she's having fun, just act friendly. Say, "that's great! I'm glad you're having a good time. Nice you hear from you." Just be friendly. Don't try to one up her by saying, "you know, I'M doing this later blah blah blah." That's just what she wants. Just act like none the wiser and be nice. She'll eventually bore of trying to get your attention and move on with her life, as you have.1
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