Im starting to like this guy I have been talking to. He treats me nice and everything but I feel like we are on two completely different levels. I am a quiet type of person and I'm not the smallest person around. The guy I'm talking to wakes doing sit up "to improve his 8 pack". I want to let him know that I know I am not what he wants and that he should probably move on.
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Just a question, but how do you know you are not what he wants? Maybe he likes you for you, and if he is already interested, he obviously is attracted to you, probably physically and emotionally. No offense, but girls that think they are not good enough for a guy make me slightly angry - especially when the guy sees no problem in it. Now if you were, say... a meth addict? and he didn't know? than yeah, so disclosure would be good and then he could decide for himself, but do not try and make the decision for him, if you both like each other and want to enjoy each others' company and possibly be more than friends, then there is no reason not to. There are guys that go ONLY for the phsyical form of their girlfriends, but I would say many more go for a combination of looks and personality.0