OK so I have this friend of whom I dated about 2 years ago. We had a long distance relationship that ended badly. Long story short, I went to visit him on Valentines day in 08 and we spent the first day together. The next morning, he left to go to church and he didn't return. So I got worried thinking something awful might have happened and the idiot dumps me over the phone & leaves me stranded 1000 miles away from home. Luckily, I know lots of people & hung out with a friend I hadn't seen in many years for the rest of my stay. We didn't talk for many months after that. I was heartbroken, needless to say. And I had never really gotten the opportunity to tell him all the things I held inside for all of those months. So one day I picked up the phone to call him to get the closure I needed. Well, that opened up a can of worms. He calls or texts @ least once a week & sometimes asks me if I would be receptive to starting over with him. I always tell him, no. I do not desire to have a relationship with him. But I always enjoyed his friendship. I still don't get why he tries with me though. Fellas, what are your thoughts on this?
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He is not worth your time and he will not stop trying to get you to do something your not wanting to do.
Cut all contact. At most tell him something along "I do not want to speak to you anymore, please do not contact me". Delete his number, do not reply to any texts or calls, not even one. The sooner you quit responding, the sooner he stops trying.0