we know each other for more than a year and been in a very good relationship for more than 3 months and we had plans to get married very soon in few months time...she just send a text me telling that she does not want to be with me anymore and asked me to stop sending texts and contacting her and again after two weeks, we broke up and she got to know something about me through my cousin and again she met me up on her own and she talked with me for 20 min and she said, everything is being messed up and depressed and asked some time like few weeks time on her own and on the other day ,she contacted my sister through text and told her that she is interested to marry me.After a week , she texted me and told that she is no longer my girl friend and she doesn't want to be with me any more and told good bye...my girl friend is really confused? is she gonna comeback again or is she left me permanently? what the exact opinion about me in her mind?
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She is not confused, she is confusing you! Yes, she might come back, but she will not come back permanently. She is playing games with you whether she even knows it or not.
Her opinion of you is that she doesn't wanna marry you but she probably still has feelings left that make her do silly things. Regardless, don't worry about whether she could still be the woman you marry. Instead ask yourself if this is really the sort of behavior you would be willing to tolerate in a WIFE. I mean, she is basically "divorcing" you and coming back before it has even started. Do you really want this in your life? Come on. She doesn't have her act together and need someone who is 100% serious about commitment before marrying.
Prescription: Ignore her completely, let your sister know that you'd appreciate if she stopped talking to this girl or at least never mentioned her to you again. Move on.
In fact even if you DID want this sort of thing in your life, doing my suggestion is probably the easiest way to get her back haha.0