her birthday is coming up in the next couple of weeks should I wish her happy birthday? we dated for a little over a year and she broke up with me a couple months ago. We are on good terms so I feel like I should because I do care about her and would love to get her back. But 1.) I feel like if i text her it will make me look clingy/desperate and 2.) I dont want to bother her/make her upset on her birthday if she takes the message in a negative way. thoughts?