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Having recently gone through a particularly hard break-up, I find the best thing is to distance yourself from them and all reminders of them. For example, put all their gifts or things you saved from the date away. Unfollow their social media accounts. Don’t frequent the same places you used to go with them. You may need to even delete their phone number and email so you’re not tempted to contact them. By removing the things that remind you of them it will stop triggering memories so you can get through the day without being pulled back into the emotions. Eventually it will get better and you’ll begin to think less and less of that person and finally you’ll be able to move on.
The first step to getting over a heart break in my opinion is accepting the reality that the feelings I had for that person are over. It always made me feel better to take out a journal and write everything down that I loved about that person, what I disliked about them, why I felt the way I did in the first place and what I can do to improve as a self-evaluation! I'd follow that up with giving myself self-pleasure to boost my self-esteem such as eating my favorite foods, doing activities I love and hanging out with people I care for! It's never easy to get over a broken heart but the pain will eventually fade away if you move forward and learn from it!
- Tell people you trust about what happened, so they can give you their opinions on what went wrong from an objective view point, so similar situations can be avoided.- Let yourself cry as much as possible.- Write a letter dedicated to the person who broke your heart (don't send the letter or show anyone, so you can properly get your pent up feelings out).- Watch movies, stand up comedy and TV series.- Find new hobbies e. g. sketching, baking, poetry, reading books & learn a language.- Get a makeover & in shape; new hairstyle, makeup & wardrobe. Take up a sport/start working out (home/gym).- Masturbate!
Get rid of everything that reminds me of them, even if I still want them, keep busy doing things that are positive and healthy (hanging out with friends, hiking, shopping), find someone who is willing to hear me bitch about things
Breaking up: you may want to die. . . but you won't, so do yourself a favor and deal with it! ↗
I used to cut myself. Sometimes I still have to. Same with feeling the need for the comfort of food because that's all that's there to make you feel better. But it doesn't and then the fear of getting fatter takes over as you notice the crime scene. So then you must be sick. The more you throw up the better you feel but the more numb I become the more I have just stopped eating. And nobody cares to notice I'm not functioning. And it doesn't actually matter. So I'm just kinda not bothering. Like I feel so shit now I'm borderline suicidal. So food has no appeal when I know ill have to throw it up. And cutting doesn't make a difference and its too much effort. So i basically just stop breathing completely. And none of it makes a difference. My heart isn't the only thing that's broken right now. And I'm not feeling great about any aspect of life in general. I'm staring something down I'm not fully sure what it is. But looking something like a slow death. No energy left to try.
I eat tons of ice-cream and cry for months on end.But no, I usually try to focus on myself and my goals. Remind myself what I wanted to do regardless of relationship. Stay confident in yourself and realize that that was 1 person out of what? 7 billion.
You go through being depressed to being angry. Exercise some, get fit and a new wardrobe. Start dating and sleeping around with as many women as you can. Drinking and drugs will be in tow, until one day you find yourself in a numb state that leaves you void of recallation of the past year. Then the realization that these fuck toys will never be her hits you like a semi-truck hits a motorcycle head on. And so it will continue for years to follow. Women fall in love faster, men fall in love deeper.
I work on projects, work out, in general try and improve on myself so as to be like, bitch your loss, I'm way better than any guy you'll find elsewhere. Then dwell on what sort of girl should I have gone for instead so as to have avoided the situation I ended up with.
*I just let it all out*Talk with my friends *Listen to songs which makes me happy.*Eat lots and lots of icecream.*Binge watch any new tv series.*Will watch all the old rom coms which would make me believe in love again *Will go out on a shopping spree*If I am really not getting over those feelings I just mastubate. After that things tend to make sense.
1. I sleep a lot so I don't have to feel anything for a while. 2. I read when I can while I'm awake, so I can feel like I actually have friends here I can talk to. 3. I go hiking and camping. 4. I go to my friends a few cities over and spend a few days with them.
Workout, go out with friends, take my son places and play with him, show him a lot of love. Babies make you feel better no matter what. I think to myself how grateful I am for what I have, I try not to dwell on what I don’t have.
Trying to distract myself as good as possible. Spending time with friends, listen to loud music, videogames, try to find something good to focus on like a healthy diet, sports, learning something new... Usually I do feel better after 4-5 months.
My method is shutting the person out that has hurt me. I have to promise my self not to let that person hut me again. I don't know if that's a healthy way to deal with thing but getting your heart broken is horrible and everyone deals with it different.
I feel nothing for no one. The only people I do care about is the closest part of my family and my ex. I loved her like anybody else but after a few day is like if I feel nothing of her. Of course I feel nostalgia but, I don't know. I feel like a really bad person for that. I don't know how I do it
1. Do something I enjoy (playing games, having a good drink).2. Crying. It helps.3. Opening up to a friend.4. Thinking about beautiful things, such as art or a story.5. Taking a bath and going to sleep.Listening to sad music does more harm than good.
I cried a lot. Read a lot of books. Watch series after series. And talked to my friends. It really helps just pouring your problems onto someone else. If they're good listeners. It really helps relieve some inner tension
Time and a change of lifestyle. Also, recognizing and accepting the mistakes that both parties made in the relationship, and learning from them. After that, socializing is the best options
cry a little.eat some food.binge watch tv.realise “holy crap, that actor his h o t.”feel a little better.repeat until you forget what you were doing.
Sex. Lots of it. At least 3 girls per week. Doesn't take long for your subconscious to remember that losing one girl means nothing when you live in a state of abundance. That, and i double up my workouts.
I visit his grave once in a while and leave some flowers.
Try to carry on and not focus on it. SO hard though. It's recently happened to me and it's been months, and I'm still not over it completely.
Lots of music, workout/diving, partying 🔄 repeat, but never be alone or without something to do or it will turn over
I try to be busy all the time. Sometimes I even go driving for hours to nowhere in particular so that I have to focus on the road and can't look at my phone.
I haven't a method to overcome a heartbreak. While I am in a relationship I imagine the worst consequences and the breakdown of the relationship. So, I prepared myself early.
Put all your energy in achieving something great. For example if you used to want to go to the gym, do it now. If you wanted to travel, do it now.Get over your heartbreak by becoming the one You've always wanted to be.
life goes on, there's more fish in the ocean, be happy all de time mon, every ting is good ya dig?Advice -- in theatres this friday! this post is not yet rated.
Time, time heals. Give time and do what your love hobbies, gym etc.. spend time with friends and families and talk to someone you trust. Just don't go back and start texting your ex
I used to cut myself when I was a moody teenager, but just jam to some of your favourite music, spend time with one of your favourite hobbies while jamming to some good music, usually helps me
Listen to sad song to recognize my sad feeling and i can therefore overcome it. Lol
Going and finding someone else to replace the one who dumped me... I don't have time for missing them! 😆
Just focus on other stuff, you need someone to get you in "trouble" (in other fun and/or crazy stuff)
Well I just focus on the things I like. Friends, movies, games, painting, whatever. You will think about the person you love all the time in the beginning, but eventually it will reduce.
-Listen to music and headbang in the dark place of my room.-Play video games-Go to a garden place and sit for a while-Sitting in front of the sea-Sleep
I have been keeping myself extra busy with work and extra work after I get off work.
I actually can't do this it is the most hard thing I face
Music, wine, friends, books and a lot of workAnd men friends that r in friend zone but they will say a few good words.
Take a bottel of water, seal it tight, put some lube on it, and give it the person who broke ur heart, with some vasline !!
Cry it out, plenty of ice cream and comedy movies and spending lots of time with family and friends! Time heals everything 😊
Mostly just takes time to get over it , every day a little better 😑
Think think and think then later late it slide away with the help from friends
Being positive always works close your eyes counting to your favorite number and trying not to focus on the nostalgic moments you might have.
As much as it may hurt you have to focus on yourself and drive on no matter how much it hurts and with your true friends will help you through it
I always think that whoever man she will have is an idiot and they will be both miserable. Always works.
Time... it takes time but to get over a broken heart u have to fix your own heart before u can love again
You are so right!! It is difficult to mend your own best but the scares always remain.
There’s no true way to get over a heartbreak except giving yourself time. Eventually you will get over it, and while there are distractions, the only thing that actually helps is time itself.
When I get sad, I stop being sad and be awesome instead! 😃
I'm just quoting from "how I met your mother" by the way.But it's a great quote.
Yes, it made me laugh
Oh dang. That's tough. I try to remind myself that I need to move forward. Stay distracted, etc.
Do what normal girls do. Sleep with many many guys then call all men pigs. then demand respect after you're done that dirty behaviour. :)
nothing if you cared about the person a lot you will remember them forever if you didn't you will forget them
So which is it for you?
@Imjust this isn't a which is it question im just speaking reality
What would it be then?
@Imjust both lol
Jerking off looking at other girls and listening to sad music
It's bad to say but I look for another girl to replace my bad feelings with positive feelings
Some days remember baki try to forget n try for another
Spend time with friends. Go out and have fun. Dont let someone break your spirit. You can do this
go out on as many dates as possible, girl time, travel!
I talk with my best friends and thinks the goods aspects of mi beautiful life
Medival fighting sport, egoshooter, alcohol and 0.5% selfpity
Stay off social media, delete him/delete him, delete all photos :)
Do you think going out and haveing sex with some helps to
Cry, jerk off to porn, watch something that makes me laugh, go to friends for some advice, eat.
Take a page from Droys book and just keep swimming. Knowing that it's the other person's loss
I avoid too much free time so my mind can focus on important things like me
Cry cry cry. And think he never deserved you. And that you deserve much more better
exercise my extreme self control.
Depends sometimes i just lay around. Other times i try to go for a drive and jam out to music and try to say his loss
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