How to have an ex forgive you when he won’t talk to you?

My ex cheated on me, I was so hurt I didn’t manage to react, I just broke up with him. Months later, as he called to hear how he was doing, I finally managed to tell him how much he had made me suffer, that he was a disgusting liar, that he had ruined all the good memories I had of him.

He didn’t react well at being accused of those things and got angry at me for being angry at me. In these past months I worked a lot on myself and managed to forgive him. I do think that holding grudges is bad and that you have to forgive the people you loved and you were close to in order to live well.

I reached out to him because I’d like the two of us to make peace, I don’t want to see him again or anything but I’d like us to not hold a grudge. But he refuses to talk to me. I wrote and called many times, it’s important for me to know that we mutually forgave each other, but nothing works he’s being so callous
How to have an ex forgive you when he won’t talk to you?
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