I'll keep the baby.. And i already have stable job. Just i really hate that guy because he ask me for abortion and he still want to see me and sleep with me.
I'm really sorry for what you're going through with that guy.I understand that you liked to have your own family, but the way he behaves would make things worse for everyone.Go for it and choose a baby, I'm sure your life will be good with the baby and you'll be a great mother. your words are few, but now I understand that you are fully prepared to take responsibility, so get rid of that passive person and give the love you didn't get in that relationship to your little one.do the right thing ( breakup), start living your life and get ready for your little angel's arrival.
Go for it and choose the baby*
Thank you.. Melnc.. Thank you so much really appreciate it
u welcome.take care...
Yupp i want to keep it.. Yupp you totally right.. He ask me for abortion.. But he want to keep our relationship.. And he also said he still want to sleep with me.
As i thought, doesn`t want to deal with child support.Hmm, but you want to keep it.I mean, he`s your boyfriend, he got pregnant by you, so in a way he also has the say. And he`s willing to pay abortion for you. but you want to keep the child.This is the part where i`d suggest going to a consult to further this matter. Consult, or ya`ll gonna have to bring ya`ll parents into this.
I already go for consultation and because of that he start ignoring me.. And he already warning that i can't told our parents for any cause
Both of you had unprotected sex. And honestly, ya`ll should`ve known or realized that at some point this would happen.This is a really sticky situationHe didn`t asked for this, you probably did not too, but ya`ll had sex without a condom.Abortion will make me feel so bad for the child for losing its life it didn`t even asked for, because the two of you were IRRESPONSIBLE and didn`t think things through, that this might happen one day.So you have a choice to make, and need to sit down with him and talk1 - you break up, since you want to keep the baby, but he doesn`t, but then you must also be aware that it will be YOU that will deal with the baby. Meaning, he won`t pay for child support. Since he doesn`t want the baby & is WILLING to PAY abortion but you don`t want wanna2 - you do the abortion, and stay with the guy that claims to love you
No matter what I'll keep this baby.. Thanks for the advice
:) goodBe prepared to lose him in the process ;)I only hope you`ll get support from family
Pray for me
I`ll meditate for you.But seriously though, if his only reaction/alternative is abortion, and no other ultimatum, then he clearly doesn`t care about your well being.
Yupp that's right... He only care about his dick.. When place to put his dick only
But, babe, you`re the one letting him put his dick in which place. Soooo, yeah, lol.But i hope all turns out well, and that you two were able to come up with a solution
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Yupp.. But that guy didn't want it.. And now he start to ignore me
Well ok. Its actually kind of reasonable if you think about it. It's not something you expect everyday to have a child all of a sudden, so maybe the thought of that really scared him off
But if you really want to keep the child, you'll just have to have it and then deal with your guy
But what actually i really hate it.. When he ask me for abortion but he still want to sleep with me.. Like f...
What if it's like he wants to just be with you without all the responsibilitied
Seriously? I'm i what his toy
Yea wait I didn't phrase that right, I mean Im just saying that might be his intention, but the rest is up to you, if you think he ain't respecting you enough in this situation you shouldn't have to deal with it