It's been a year and I still haven't gotten over him. I feel like I just left the relationship at such an inconclusive place. I realized afterward that I actually loved him and that he was perfect for me in every way. But I had foolishly convinced myself that my career and life came before boys and I am too young to even consider falling in love or trying to be in a serious relationship. So here I am a year later feeling like I'm wasting my time chasing ghosts and am unable to move on. I've thought I had gotten over him but I guess those times were just quick fixes. How do you get over heartbreak. How do I stop asking "what if" and pine for him to come back in to my life miraculously.