I'm dating a great guy, but there's something missing - I don't love him. I haven't been able to fall in love with anybody though, so I'm wondering if I should keep looking for that special someone, to get that feeling, or if I'm being silly & should stay with him if I've been lucky enough to find such a sweet guy. any thoughts/experiences?
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I was exactly in the same position as you. I'm really surprised to see someone is too... I broke up with my ex because of this reason. I like her and she's great, funny, smart, pretty and all that.. Oh and the perfectist p**** You have EVER seen. No joke. lol I never seen one make me turn into a p**** eating beast... ANYWAY lol, she was a great girl, but one of the biggest reasons I broke it off with her was because I never got that feeling of love, never felt like even if she talked to other guys, I WOULDNT feel jealous about it, not one bit. And that's not right. I should be, even if a little bit. It didn't make sense to me why id be with someone and things are going really good, but not be able to say I love you to her or actually feel it with my heart 100%.
it was hard, and she doesn't speak to me now, even though we go to the same faculty and see each other every now and then... she told me some mean things, obviously, because I broke her little heart... trust me, it hurts to be in this position at first, but honestly, I'm a strong guy and I have a good shell, I don't let people bring me down ever so.. I guess I kind of took it easy... even if it was rough. So yeah, she still hates my guts, and she thinks I'm a player (I really am not lol) I did meet a girl and have sex with her once 2 months ago.thats it so far since I broke with my ex and yeah. she found out about that, and now she thinks even worse about me...
she was my first breakup... so... I really don't feel proud about hurting her like thhat, because I don't want to hurt her.. but I did. And now I'm the jerk. Yay me. but life goes on and there's plenty of fish left to catch y'know?0