I REALLY need to fix my mistake. I know I do, and I really do trust him, I just get extremely jealous because he has so many friends that are girls, and it makes me jealous when other girls get to spend more time with him than me (we live 20 minutes away from each other and go to different schools). It doesn’t help when I’m already mad at him for something else and when a girl pops up during the same time, I just yell “Don’t talk to her”. I do trust him! I don’t need to go through his phone, I don’t need to do anything. I know he would never cheat on me. I just really want to prove to him that I do trust him and that I made an awful mistake. How can I reassure him so that we stay together? Please help, what should I say...
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I think that you seriously have to sit down and talk with him. Try to understand your feelings of jealousy and see if there's a way to work together to heal that rift. Does he talk to you much about these female friends? Do you feel that there's a lot going in that side of his life that you don't know? If so then you have a right to feel worried. Beyond all else, talk to him about his feelings on this, and also talk about your own feelings. It sounds wishy-washy but without total openness and understanding on both sides, you're going to be in for a lit of hurt and regret later.
My advice is that you tell him everything you said here. But in the future you will have to stop telling him not to talk to other girls. Nobody wants to be with a person who tries to control their life. Just make sure you explain it to him like you did here, that it has nothing to do with those girls, you were just mad about something else and that you know he wouldn't cheat on you. I think he will understand that