You say you like me and would love to date me/be with me and tell me that you wanna do all these sexual things and stuff then tell me you c me as a friend and that there is someone else in the picture. So how can you like someone but c them as a friend at the same time? That's contradicting. Why would a guy do that? But then say you weren't trying to lead me on.
So I don't get it?-Why doesn't he just say that he likes someone more than me instead of excuses?
What Guys Said 1
It sounds like the guy just likes to lead you on. He probably likes the idea that someone likes or wants to be with him. Basically he just likes the attention.0
What Girls Said 1
Because guys and girls have different levels of "like". For girls we typically like someone as either a friend or potential relationship. For guys, they have an extra level, which is as a sexual partner. That level includes some sort of friendship, or, really, friendliness, and sex but no potential for a relationship. Even girls who like a guy for sex usually see that tied towards heading into a relationship, though not always.
So, this guy is keeping his options open for a hookup with you. Set him straight if his plan is not appreciated.0
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