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Why did you reject them all?
@mel1695 well basically I don't believe in sex before marriage and basically because I seem to attract bad girls... and the ones who are good are too intimidated to approach or even look at me, lol I spotted a few of them, but right now I don't want to tempt myself, and other several issues
Wow. You are the first guy that I know that wants to wait to have sex until marriage. I myself am doing the same ( waiting to have sex after marriage) but where I live, all the guys I have ever met have had sex before and it’s quite disappointing. So that is great for you, very admirable.
@mel1695 lol thank you, and i would like to say the same of you, I only know a few girls who are virgins, but they're just afraid of the sex, some of them, and the thing is I might even be single for life lol! But I don't mind because I don't know what it's like to be in a relationship
I don’t know why people believe they will be single for life. I truly believe there is someone out there for everybody. There has to be. I mean there are billions of people on this planet, so hopefully haha. Yeah, I am not afraid of sex or the idea of it, I sometimes desire it, but I was raised in a traditional household, so traditional values were taught to me. Hence the waiting till marriage thing. But how come you never been in a relationship? Is it because you are afraid of temptation?
@mel1695 not only temptation but I don't trust easily, and I guess I'm not as affectionate as people would like me to be... Lol I don't even like being touched, when I say single for life I just mean so far I don't have the desire for that nor children, lol and I don't trust myself to be alone with a girl right now... I want sex everyday every hour, hitting the gym for a few hours helps a bit but after taking a shower and relaxing for a few minutes it just comes back and I just want a girl to do some things to, might even scare the poor girls with all my fantasies
Well I don’t blame you that you have those thoughts. A man’s sexually peak is usually around the age of 18-25... whereas a woman is at 35. So I guess I understand your sexual frustration? Like you, I don’t like to be touched by anyone unless I have given my full trust to them. Hugging people makes me sometimes cringe unless I initiate it first. But there is a reason why my behavior is like this. If I may ask, why don’t you like people touching you? Were you touch inappropriately by anyone? And I think you shouldn’t be ashamed of your fantasies, everyone has them even tho they don’t like to admit it.
@mel1695 lol my fantasies are dark... Lol, and the issue of physical contact... Lol you and I are alike there... I've never actually hugged anyone since last year or 2 years ago I believe, I can only shake hands, and fist bumping, and I realised I'm actually very sensitive lol! I literally jump when someone touches me, I've not been able to let people touch me... even my best friend on the female side, and having done karate, kick boxing, it doesn't help that I become really defensive when someone touches me without me realising it at first, I literally almost threw someone when they touched me while I was just thinking about something, I'm I once did something where I started flirting with a girl... Lol it's not right because she probably wanted to have sex with me... we were in class and I kept touching and caressing her inner thigh and she kept laughing and blushing she ended up being very physical as well which i didn't like precum was leaking... like a lot
I feel like when you tell someone that you will love them forever, it’s like a curse or jinx.
As I said it to her, I knew it was a bad idea but I couldn't help it. Young love I guess