I've asked this girl out four times. I didn't even specifically ask as a date. I just asked if she wanted to go wherever with me. Every time she has said something like these:
1. I'm with all of these girls right now, but I wish I could.
2. I'm already at (mall), but I would've liked to.
Every time I say maybe next time or some other time and she says definitely or of course. Tonight she couldn't go out, but she offered to sneak out (she's still in high school, barely.)
It seems like she is trying, but at the same time it's frustrating because it happens every time. And I will say that these are spur of the moment asks, but we've made plans twice: the first one we both had things come up and the second one she didn't want to ditch her friends so she spent the day with them. So I'm just wandering if I should keep asking/trying to plan or find someone else.
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I know girls that do that to guys all the time, and in my opinion I would say it's a waste of time at this point. Any person that knows they want to date you doesn't give you the run around unless you guys have had a history or something. Other than that four times is enough and when girls continue to get the same guy asking her out she tends to either make him a joke behind his back or just take advantage of him in general. If you really feel like its worth one more try than go for it, but you can't force anyone to like you and it's not worth your time because you'll only be hurting yourself in the long run.0