Is breaking up by phone OK in a long term relationship?

Long story short... I fucked up and moved in with my boyfriend. Over the last 6 months or so He spent 85% of the time in his birth country (original plan was 50%) and when he's here he's not even touching me and basically rejecting me when I ask. At this point I'm not even feeling like I'm in a relationship, just that I have something that is blocking me from other opportunities.
His family came over for a week and he will be going with them for some reason or other. Is it terrible to break up while he's away or do I have to wait until he's back? I'm just too stressed and have pretty much lost feelings for him.
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Under normal circumstances I'd go for the face to face breakup but I'm not getting the chance since he spends one week with me and then goes off.
Is breaking up by phone OK in a long term relationship?
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