He's in basic training now. He said it is hard for him to deal with the stress of the military and having a relationship. I understand where he's coming from. I know when he gets stressed he pushes people away. I just don't know what to do cause I really do want to help him. I want to be there for him and help him get through this. . i decided to give him a week to think things through and sort of calm down. I don't know if this is the right thing to do. I want to how him that I can deal with the stress of a military relationship. I know it is going to be tough but I want to help him. I dt want to message him but I know stressed out cause he's becoming distant. I had a meltdown after he said he didn't what to do. I spammed him with messages begging him not to which only made him angry. He snapped saying he didn't want this.