my ex still text me sometimes and I am not sure why. We broke up because he cheated and lied to me. He tried to get back with me, but too much trust had been broken. So then he got another girlfriend. And from what she tells people they are in love. He still text me and its at the most random times. Can anybody help me understand why?
Guys and girls, why would my ex still text me if he has a new girlfriend?
What Guys Said 1
Sometimes people just need to talk to someone that they can be open with, since you have already been close in the past it is easier to open to you than to a random girl and guys don't really talk to each other about personal stuff. While I am not ignoring the fact that he could be trying to get with you I am pointiing out the possibilaty that he might just need someone to talk to other than his girlfriend who might not understand him that well yet. I have been with my girlfriend for two years and sometimes I still talk to a certain ex I had the most horrible relationship with but because we had gone through so much together it was easy to just be ourselves while talking to each other.0
What Girls Said 1
When you have a history it's hard to just let go. Clearly he cared about you and is now having to face the consequences of his actions - i.e. he lost you. I had a boyfriend who cheated on me and lied to me and 4 months later he's still telling me he misses me and telling me he's never loved anyone as much as me, even though he's the one who broke up with me and he's with someone else. Feelings don't disappear just like that, and I think it's more healthy for both of you to go through whatever you need to go through in order to come out OK on the other side...burying feelings doesn't help.0
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